Friday morning we started getting ready to leave for Ohio. Steve had some stuff to do, and Cathy was on her way up in the car so she could be here while we were gone overnight. The weather was not great, and the Aerostar is not great for weather trips. I've never, in all the years the airplane has been here, years now, ever been able to connect my iPad to it and get the weather on the iPad. The XM weather doesn't work up top any more, so you have a screen of ADS-B weather which only reaches out so far and takes awhile to upload and download some days. No onboard radar, either. And you can't go above 12,500' in it, not pressurized. So just not the best weather plane as is. Every time I say that, Steve or Nathan inform me of how I should be able to hook up my iPad, and I've even gotten it hooked up via wifi to get traffic on there, but no weather has ever, ever gone over to my iPad, and I've given up on mentioning it any more. I don't even bother having my iPad out. But that makes days like this weekend difficult when I've got weather to deal with.
Thursday in New York, Kaylee calls me right after I landed out there, so her timing was good, and she was sobbing. She was almost distraught, saying she was going to get in her car and come home Right Now, that she couldn't do this any more, she was exhausted, and it was terrible. She had a cabin of mostly 7-8 year olds, 11 of them, and two of them were special needs, developmentally delayed, and had attached themselves to her so hard that she couldn't even get one of them to stop crying and get out of her bed (not with her in it). She wanted to sleep with Kaylee in bed, which is not cool or appropriate, and Kaylee ended up bribing her with a stuffed animal to get her in her own bed. Kaylee said she had to basically leave most of the other girls to the other counselor, that she was full time with these kids, and she'd get overwhelmed, and leave, and go cry somewhere herself. She wasn't getting enough sleep, they weren't getting enough food because the kitchen staff person had a seizure and didn't get everything ordered, the activities were disorganized and the kids missed out on fun things because leadership goofed up there (because they are short staffed and had one guy running it all instead of the 4 people they had in the past). She says "I am DONE." I told her that she cannot leave those kids with just Thursday and Friday to go before the end of the week. She said they have other counselors who can step in. She was seriously at the end of her rope and it took me 30 minutes of talking on the phone to calm her down enough to breathe, stop crying, and agree to make it to Friday, when we would be there, and see her. I told her she'd regret that, that it would be a poor decision, not a good thing to do to the camp, to the kids, or for herself. She agreed to wait for Friday, then said she was probably leaving camp for the rest of the summer.
I'm watching weather Friday, and I see we have a window, but we need to leave NOW. So I'm shoving Steve out the door, racing to the airport, loading up the plane, preflighting, it's raining, there's another wall coming, we get folks over to help us pull out the Aerostar, I fire up and get my clearance and get an immediate deviation away from the weather, and the first 20 minutes or so are going around cells. Then Grissom says "Looks like you're all clear!" and we high five. Until 10 minutes later when we see another wall of weather that didn't show up on the ADS-B that far out. Worked around that too, and got into Mansfield visually. They have a new FBO there, but they asked us if we were familiar with the old one, and we said yes, and they wanted us to go back there to be put in the hangar for the weekend. Cool. We are met by the former owner of the old FBO, who remembers us, and Kaylee, remembers her as a little kid going to camp and us coming in in one of several different airplanes. He parked us, we chatted, he thought it was cool she was a counselor now, he put us in the hangar and got us our rental car, and we left for our cabin.
We got to the cabin and got settled in. It was a little different than it looked online, as they often are, older, damp-ish, kind of felt like camping or Oshkosh a little bit even, lots of daddy longleg spiders in the corners. Jacuzzi tub in the bathroom, no deck like Steve thought there was. The rooms next to us on each side had a deck but ours didn't, and he thinks maybe it's because we had the extra room instead. Sort of room, it was separated by a portable divider, these two beds. It wasn't bad, it wasn't awesome, it got the job done. :)
Kaylee joined us at the cabin, and filled us in on the rest of the story. She'd noticed that the girls would melt down and shut down every time someone yelled or things got loud. So she asked them about it alone from everyone else, and they are sisters. They started opening up to her, told her that it was loud at their house, their step dad yells and screams and throws things, their 11-year-old brother comes after them with a hammer and locks them in their room when their parents are both gone, a neighbor held one of them underwater until she passed out, a variety of things with the basic "step dad isn't a good guy". Kaylee wrote it all up and gave it to camp leadership, who took it seriously, and interviewed the girls, who clammed up on a lot of it around other adults, but did admit to some of it. Meanwhile in another cabin, another little girl was telling her counselor about sexual abuse at the hands of a neighbor. Come to find out, the little girl lived in the same building as these sisters, they were friends, and she was talking about their step-dad. So the camp called in Child Protective Services, who filled out reports, Kaylee had to talk to them a couple times about what the girls said, so did the other counselor. When the parents came to pick up the kids at the end of the week, Kaylee had to let the girls go home with them, and she has felt sick ever since. She hunted down the guy and looked him up, and knows his name and address, and has considered going to jail over it. But she feels like she wasn't a good counselor, that she didn't do a good job all week, that she shouldn't be there. I tried to tell her that those girls came to trust her, and talk to her, and there was no previous report, so they hadn't told anyone else. She did the best she could with what she could do, and it was a tough week, and the first one with campers. On top of it all, most of the counselors including Kaylee got sick. Looks like a cold or cold virus of some sort. Runny nose, cough, bleh, congestion. (It's not covid.) I hated that she wanted to hug all over me and I was like...I am too busy to get sick, I cannot get sick right now. I probably will anyway because we were in the same space touching the same things and we did hug. But...I can hope.
So Kaylee apparently decided to try to stick it out, but she's sick as a dog. She didn't get out of bed much, she feels terrible, couldn't sleep without drugging up, can't breathe, just...yuck. And now they're getting a new batch of kids. She is in the 10-12 year old range this time. She said the camp director is putting her with a cabin of girls he knows that are all friends that are "good kids". She's like...what if he thinks they are but they aren't? What if they gang up on me because they're all friends? I told her to try to relax and assume the best and do what you gotta do.
We went to The Cabin for dinner, and they were out of fillet and crème brulet. But the salmon I had was really good. Saturday we went to Malabar Farms for dinner, and they didn't have wine, but they did have the special iced tea, fillet and crème brulet, so it worked out. ;) Kaylee slept most of Sunday until we had to go. I stopped in at Walmart and bought her more drugs, and we parted ways there and I haven't heard from her since. I'm hoping she's okay. She could use the prayers. On a few fronts.
Steve and I tried to get good breakfast at a place we found yesterday, but they were packed out and nowhere to park. So we circled the block a few times, no go, went on to Cracker Barrel. They had people backed up out on the porch. We left and went to Subway at the airport. Not nearly as much fun, but food, and then headed back for Kokomo. Found a line of weather in the way that showed up on the ADS-B at the last minute. Went around some and through some rain, and then I shot the ILS 23 into Kokomo.
Home again, Cathy left, Steve went next door, I unpacked and am doing laundry, catching up here, and ready for a nap. And hoping Kaylee is okay.
The cabin room. You can see Kaylee's bed there, the kitchen table, and behind that little partition, the second bed.
Wet Stain just seems wrong. Only to me, apparently.
She's alive back there.
Some of the scenery where we drove around
The hike we decided not to do.
Flying home...